A subtle difference that's nearly missed in words. He's not sure which way he'll go for, but he feels like he has... direction... in a way. Wanting to think so much about this is actually a sign that is true self is peeking through more.

"I think it might be easier to talk with someone outside of the band about this. I mean, I can probably talk to them, but I think they'd be... more... pushy." For lack of a better word. They mean well, but they also are too close to the both of them.