That's sort of a tough one. If he didn't get it from someone else, where did it come from? The only other answer to that was, "It has to be your own, then. That's the only thing that makes sense."

Guess everyone deals with their own problems at their own time.. but still. Something this paramount needs some kind of direction in order to process it, right? "If you say so.. but, still. You'll probably find you have it in you when you need to. I know I did." However long that takes, anyway.