[How to politely say "Because I know about fucking emotional trainwrecks, and I am looking at one right now."]

Look, I... [He shuffles a little, because this is upsetting and difficult to talk about.] I know what it's like to just - want to pretend nothing's going on when something happens. And - I dunno, I'm just guessing it's hard to be the. The only one left in your band.

[He's not going to cop to how much he misses Terry too because fucking emotions, how do they work. Jamie goes silent and makes some fidgety, shrugging motions.] ...I mean. I don't know if it helps, but there it is.